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Category: observations

The long, still, moments of the dusk

I’m sitting in the dark, writing on my phone as the long still moments of the dusk slip into night. My favorite human is asleep on the couch, finally home from vacation and business travel.

Sophie-dog is laying by the sliding glass door, watching out hopefully for another groundhog to blunder into the yard. She got one on Tuesday, and now her surveillance of the back yard is eternal.

Poppy-cat is likely on the dining room table, based on the sound of the little bell on her collar. I don’t have the heart to shoo her down tonight.

I’m not sure where Mojo-kitty is Mojoing at the moment, but that’s hardly unusual. Mojo is our timid baby and slinks about on his own schedule.

I should probably start the process of putting the house to bed, but there’s something comforting about everything being right in the house after weeks of displacement. I just want to sit in the stillness, in the dark, and appreciate it for a few more minutes.

Bad Latin Romance

Since the 1991 Addams Family movie came out, I’ve toyed with getting the Addams family motto tattoed along the ulnar edge of my right arm. At some point I added getting the Sto Helit family motto on my left ulnar edge to match.

I’ve talked myself out of it each time, not because I don’t want a second tattoo, but because I’m not sure I’m committed to having fake Latin where everyone can see it.

Morticia: As an Addams, you understand completely, don’t you?
Fester: As an Addams, yes, I do.

And our credo, “Sic gorgiamus allos subjectatos nunc”…”We gladly feast on those who would subdue us”. Not just pretty words.

Morticia Addams, The Addams Family, 1991

If the Addams credo, “We gladly feast on those who would subdue us” was actually translated into Latin it would be more likeĀ 

Eis libenter epulamur qui nos domare velint.

http://latindiscussion.com/forum/threads/we-gladly-feast-on-those-who-would-subdue-us.17584/

That said, it’s about as accurate as most ‘Latin’ credos from the middle ages, so the original has that going for it.

Likewise, author Sir Terry Pratchet calls out the Sto Helit motto of “fear not the reaper” as

Non Timetus Messor

Hogfather, Terry Pratchet

But when he was knighted in 2009, the motto given to him was the more gramatically correct

Noli Timere Messorem

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terry_Pratchett

So what’s a person to do? Go with the bad Latin so the fans of both will recognize the inspiration or go with the correct Latin so future archeologists who find my mortal remains will know that I knew better?

Other women: I love fall. The changing leaves. The brisk weather. The pumpkins.

Me: The bats. The cobwebs. The cute spider decorations. The creatures lurking in the mist.

Other women. …

Me: What?

The Jedi guide to finishing that tough book in 3 easy steps

Have you ever started reading a book with the best of intentions, only to find what you thought you going to be reading was something entirely different than what you actually read?

Maybe you picked up a book with the best intentions for learning something new, but then the reading didn’t take you and you’re struggling to continue. There’s an easy solution to this problem.

I had this same problem in April and of all things Star Wars showed me how to deal with it. I’ll show you how to finish a tough book in three easy steps.

Step 1 – Choose your book wisely.

I started The Great Movies by Robert Ebert with the best of intentions. I thought that reading about some of the greatest films of all time, particularly ones I hadn’t yet seen would inspire me to broaden my horizons. I love a broad range of movies, but I have some gaps in my taste.

One hundred great movies in alphabetical order. Could anything be better for learning more about great films?

Surely expanding the breadth of my appreciation for movies would be a good thing. I thought so, but then I read the first essay in the book. I slogged through that first chapter, convinced that it would get better once I got past the introductory material.

Despite competent writing, it did not get better once I got past the opening material.

Step 2 – Persevere!

I heard my inner Master Yoda whispering to me as I struggled with every page. “Keep reading the book, you should. By a renowned personality in the field, it is. Let a book beat you, will you? Hmm?”

I set a goal to read three essays every day until I completed all 100 movies.

When I was young, I loved watching Siskle and Ebert at the movies. Even when I disagreed with them, I enjoyed watching them talk about the movies. After 5 days of slogging through three essays a day, trying to finish the book before the end of April, I came to two conclusions:

  • Roger Ebert’s essays didn’t have the same feel as him talking about a movie.
  • I enjoyed watching Siskel & Ebert disagree about movies more than I enjoyed them actually talking about movies.

If I’d read the essay about Casablanca as my enticement to watch the film, instead of seeing it at a festival on the big screen with my Gran, I’m pretty sure I would have passed on one of the greatest films of all time.

I’m nothing, if not persistent, so I kept reading. Three dry, dull, essays a day. No other reading unless I read my chunk.

I read every day. I didn’t manage three essays every day, but I kept reading. This continued until I hit the letter S on April 29.

In the essay on Star Wars, he talks about how much he loves the film. In particular, describes that great scene where Princess Leia gives the plans to the plucky C-3PO and tells him to take them to Obi-Wan Kenobi.

C-3PO? Plucky C-3PO?

Reading that, I discovered step three.

Step 3 – Let the Force be your guide.

It’s R2-D2 who carries the plans and the hope of the rebellion to enlist the aid of Obi-wan Kenobi.

So it wasn’t exactly the force. It was complete indignation at such a blatant error in the essay. Even my inner Master Yoda said, “Fucking kidding me, you’ve got to be.”

I stopped reading The Great Movies on April 29. The book might have had essays left in it, but I was finished reading it. Stopping reading, whether the book continues or not, is a perfectly legitimate way to finish a book.

It felt liberating.

Between April 30th and May 2nd, I started (and finished) The Ardent Swarm by Yamen Manai, which was delightful, The Miniaturist by Jessie Burton, which I found most satisfying, and started the latest Murderbot novel, Fugitive Telemetry,, which I’m finding most amusing.

Sometimes the answer is as simple as knowing when to move on. I wasted a whole month of that book. I didn’t gain the intended knowledge from it, but I did learn that I need I needed to trust myself enough to value my time.

Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time for that’s the stuff life is made of.

Benjamin Franklin

Your time is valuable.

When you’re reading for knowledge, it’s good to stretch yourself, but sometimes you’re going to make mistakes when choosing books. That’s okay.

Stop reading the book. Close the covers. Thank it for teaching you something about yourself.

Maybe your next book will catch your inner spark, and you’ll have more time to devote to it because you didn’t keep struggling needlessly with a book that wasn’t speaking to you.

They’re just books, after all. They don’t have feelings to be hurt if you don’t finish them.

Just don’t tell my copy of Something Wicked This Way Comes, that. He’s sensitive.

And May the Fourth be with you.

Snow piling up in the woodlands behind our house.
Can somebody please tell it to stop snowing already?

I watched three separate vehicles spin out in front of me as I was going between work locations today. Now I’m listening to the wind howl as the snow goes from slush to glazed on the streets, but at least I’m safely at home.

I can remember when storms like this weren’t frightening to me. Now every howl of wind sounds like it could be the next one to land a tree on the house. Logically, I know that’s not the case. There aren’t that many trees left that could hit the house even if one of the gusts did blow something down.

In the meantime, our snowblower broke in the last snowfall. The replacement parts don’t arrive until Saturday. We only have two shovels, so watched as others worked to remove the snow by hand.

Maybe someday, I’ll find the majesty in the storm and not just the potential for disruption and destruction. I’m hopeful that one day I’ll look back on the picture and short video I took and see the majesty in the storm’s power and find grace in the good fortune that this time we didn’t suffer significant damage.

Adjust as you go

A black and white tuxedo cat looks up from a blue and white checked rug.
Bunny cat demands love. Now. Or snacks. Snacks are good, too.

I finished The Witch’s Book of Self-Care. It wasn’t my sort of thing. I found it heavy on the metaphysical, and I was hoping for less self visualization and candle burning with intention, and more practical ideas for self-care. Others may find it more to their preferences.

Because I didn’t find what I was looking for, I started The Self-Care Prescription by Robyn L Gobin, Ph.D. I am already happier with my choice. Chapter one was about the importance of social groups to self-care with ideas I will adapt to Covid times. Chapter two is about building in time for exercise as self-care. The structure is more what I expected and wanted.

Sometimes you just have to adapt as you go.

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